Modern technology facilitates the satisfaction of the enormous human appetite for classification and selection, saving an average passive member of consumer society both time and money in meeting even the most basic physiological needs. However, not many of self-advertisers like to “get straight to the point”. For that reason, the favourite password in the world of personal ads is “friendship”. It covers the desire for more intimate relationships, in the case of those whose longing is repressed in daily communication on account of psychological or social obstacles.
It seems enough for a start to have a photograph, the “right” and the most representative one, whether it was taken especially for the occasion or chosen among some long discarded family or holiday snaps. Now, every one is given a chance to be represented in the “ideal light”, at least in this artificial space of collective privacy.
The characters in these photographs are unprofessional actors who, by posing as if they are being photographed for their own personal ads, impersonate aspirants to “happiness in love”. With a touch of humour, they symbolize various degrees of self-awareness, attractiveness and sexuality. The “right” photograph points to the fact that the whole process of self-advertising is based primarily on visual appeal – the exchange of looks is the necessary overture to anything that might succeed. Deliberate parodies, the portraits of these people do not represent themselves; they are the result of the photographic fiction – fiction that creates a critical distance in order that, paradoxically, certain phenomena may be more accurately perceived.
“Personals” do not linger in the intimate circle of their protagonists or their imaginative world. They step out into the socio-economic orbit, where the trade of “types“ from the human inventory takes place. While the characters in these photographs give the impression of being content and proud of who they are, their private traumas and excesses do not escape exposure. It is therefore hard to tell whether this phenomenon is the panacea for all sorts of personal sufferings, or just another by-product of an already exhausted consumer society.
— Katarina Radovic, Belgrade, Serbia