My father lived to be 99. My dad started to disappear about 10 years before that. He didn't have Alzheimer's. He had dementia caused by old age. Very similar but there are no drugs to help with what he had. As I age I think about this. Who will I be, what will become of me? So, as therapy and as a self learning project I decided to tell his and possibly my story. And the story of Rosemary (a beloved mom and companion) and so many others and their families who are living with this reality.